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The Book Club That Ended All Book Clubs

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Headed to a book club meeting later today (yes, “The Book Club That Ended All Book Clubs” is really the name of this book club) to discuss Brené Brown’s Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead. I was surprised that this varied group of visibly “professional” and/or “artistic” folk, primarily from the Brooklyn immigrant community, chose this book (it’s a democratic process that involves nominations and voting on Facebook). It seemed too “touchy feely” for this group. Although, I was happy to have this book be the choice because I had already started it and was having trouble finishing it (also, always happy not to have another book on my to-read list). I am very much looking forward to the meeting and seeing where the discussion goes.

Brené Brown intrigues me because she holds fast to her identity as an academic, but is part of this larger machine (propelled by the Oprah industry) that moves her into an arena that academics tend to frown at. From what I’ve seen, she straddles the line between the two areas and makes that line look a lot less defined, and a bit silly. This TED talk video basically sums up the book:

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25 ways to sleep better

One of my favorite TEDtalks is by the poet Rives from 2007, titled “The 4 a.m. Mystery.” It’s comedic, but as with most good comedy, also quite true. I am sure exceptions exist – most probably for young partygoers and lovers – but in general, 4 a.m. is not a pretty hour to be awake…. It’s a downright ugly hour if you’ve been trying to sleep since midnight. In that case, 4 a.m. is the time you know you are going to have a bad day tomorrow. At 2 a.m. you were still optimistic; at 3 a.m. you began to go over your day to see what you’d done to deserve losing sleep; at 4 a.m. you give up and start trying to rearrange the day ahead to accommodate your misery.

I’ve had these nights (and those days ahead) and so I’m always looking for information on how to prevent them. Most recent to come across my screen is an article on MSN.com by Marnie Soman, seductively titled “25 ways to sleep better tonight.” Unfortunately, if you didn’t do some of these things today, you won’t sleep better tonight (unless, of course, you’re reading this at 4 a.m. and have all day to get some of these in). We all know much of this already, but it’s always good to be reminded. Some highlights:

1. Pump it up
Regular aerobic exercise — bicycling, walking at a moderate pace, swimming laps — for 30 to 40 minutes, four times a week, improves sleep quality. You can break it up into two 20-minute sessions if that fits better into your life.

Hmmmm…no mention of yoga here but a strong vinyasa class would surely fit this bill. The article warns, however, that said exercise should end at least 3 hours before bedtime.

3. Choose cherry
The fruit is rich in melatonin, which helps the body regulate its sleep/wake cycle. When study participants drank eight ounces of a tart cherry-juice beverage twice a day for two weeks, they reported significant improvements in insomnia. Find the juice at Whole Foods Market and natural foods stores.

Perhaps we can claim cherry-juice as a medical expense? Business-related expenditure maybe? Then there is the old standby at number 8:

Frazzled people sleep less and have worse sleep quality, and compromised slumber contributes to stress.

No kidding. My job market and tenure years immediately come to mind. Soman suggests a warm bath to raise the body temperature, which “may enable you to fall asleep faster and then shift you into deeper sleep.” Not sure how that squares with number 6, which advises you lower the temperature in your bedroom because “A cool bedroom lowers your core body temperature, which initiates sleepiness.” I guess you choose which works for you (I find a Bikram class totally knocks me out while a cold room means I have to make several trips to the bathroom).

One of the 2 items I can totally get behind comes very near the end:

23. S-t-r-e-t-c-h
In a study at the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center in Seattle, women who did upper- and lower-body stretches four times a week for about 15 to 30 minutes reduced their problems falling asleep by 30 percent.

Yup, make time to do some yoga. Even if it’s in bed. Even if you’ve already tried the other 25 strategies. Even if it’s already 4 a.m.